onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. Think about what you really enjoy. What brings you alive? What could you do for hours – even if you weren’t paid to do it?

2. What do others say you’re good at? Sometimes we’re blind to our gifts and strengths but usually other people will comment on them. What do others notice, and constantly affirm?

3. What’s your work style? Do you prefer a more structured environment? Do you prefer to work with other people or on your own? Do you like to follow guidelines and be told the rules, or do you likely to be creative and have autonomy?

4. Where would you like to work? In a hospital, in a school, in an office, in your own home? Would you prefer the type of job where you travel frequently, and perhaps to different countries all around the world?

5. How important is money to you? Are you content with “just enough” or do you want to earn a huge amount? Do you want a regular and predictable monthly income or would you prefer that your salary was based on bonuses and commission?

6. How important is the work-life balance to you? Some careers require you to work long hours, to travel on a whim, and to put your projects first. Others give employees more flexibility. They let you choose your hours and the days when you will work.

7. How do you feel about having to work shifts, on evenings, at weekends, or on public holidays? There are many careers that require you to do that.

8. How well do you function under pressure and stress? Again, decide if that is something that you mind in a career.

onlinecounsellingcollege:

“Fall in love with someone who will never let you go to sleep wondering if you still matter.”

— Unknown

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. Make the most of those little slots of time – a free fifteen minutes here and there. You can accomplish a lot in those extra lost minutes.

2. Make your work place comfortable and inviting. For example, have an inspiring bookshelf, light a scented candle, put up a few crazy, fun photographs.

3. Don’t be afraid of criticism as it can help you to learn and grow. Dreading it too much creates anxiety which thn prevents you from producing your best.

4. Recognise that we rarely feel happy when we’re working as we often struggle with incompetence, frustration and feeling that we don’t know what to do.

5. Remember all the reasons why it’s worth persevering, and how you’re going to feel when you finally get there.

onlinecounsellingcollege:

“Now every time I witness a strong person, I want to know: What darkness did you conquer in your story? Mountains do not rise without earthquakes.”

— Unknown

ninasdrafts:

“It sure is the worst thing in the world. To look at the person that once meant so much to you and to feel nothing. To be fully aware of that void in your chest, that abyss that stretches from one rib to the other in the place where things used to grow. Loving you, hating you - it cannot be compared to that emptiness, that lack of feeling that once you notice it can’t be ignored anymore. It won’t go away, even if you pretend it was never there to begin with. When I look at you now, I’m no longer sure that hate is the opposite of love. By now I think it’s indifference. Waking up one day and suddenly not caring anymore. To feel so empty that even trying to recall what was once there becomes an impossible task. To have that vacancy inside of you, but no idea how to fill it back up.”

— heart vacancy / n.j

onlinecounsellingcollege:

“Darling, you deserve it all. You deserve love and peace and magic and joy dancing in your eyes. You deserve hearty, deep-belly laughter and the right to let those tears fall and water the soil. You deserve freedom and goodness and company and days of bliss and quiet too. You deserve you happy and healed and content and open. So keep going, darling. Keep going.”

— Unknown

alska-452:

Am i the only one that cries or feel a tug in their heart at scenes of good parents or them sacrifiyng everything for their children?

And think i wish mine were like that

faridaspeare:

Does your heart ever decide to feel too much, too quickly at once and you just end up crying? Like it’s too bloody sensitive to any form of affection? If you hug me, your shirt will be drenched in tears- every tear composed of a different emotion. Just saying.

illmaticbaddie:

adaestra:

““I am not here to tame your darkness,” she whispered,“ I am here to live in it.””

—  crave the fire 

itstayloratthedisco:

GET IN MY BUSINESS PLEASE:

1. The meaning behind my url:
2. A picture of me:
3. How many tattoos i have and what they are:
4. Last time i cried and why:
5. Piercings i have:
6. Favorite band:
7. Biggest turn offs:
8. Top 5 (insert subject):
9. Tattoos i want:
10. Biggest turn ons:
11. Age:
12. Ideas of a perfect date:
13. Life goal:
14. Piercings i want:
15. Relationship status:
16. Favorite movie:
17. A fact about my life:
18. Phobia:
19. Middle name:
20. Height:
21. Are you a virgin?
22. What’s your shoe size?
23. What’s your sexual orientation?
24. Do you smoke, drink, or take any drugs?
25. Someone you miss:
26. What’s one thing you regret?
27. First celebrity you think of when someone says attractive:
28. Favorite ice cream?
29. One insecurity:
30. What my last text message says:
31. Have you ever taken a picture naked?
32. Have you ever painted your room?
33. Have you ever kissed a member of the same sex?
34. Have you ever slept naked?
35. Have you ever danced in front of your mirror?
36. Have you ever had a crush?
37. Have you ever been dumped?
38. Have you ever stole money from a friend?
39. Have you ever gotten in a car with people you just met?
40. Have you ever been in a fist fight?
41. Have you ever snuck out of your house?
42. Have you ever had feelings for someone who didn’t have them back?
43. Have you ever been arrested?
44. Have you ever made out with a stranger?
45. Have you ever met up with a member of the opposite sex somewhere?
46. Have you ever left your house without telling your parents?
47. Have you ever had a crush on your neighbor?
48. Have you ever ditched school to do something more fun?
49. Have you ever slept in a bed with a member of the same sex?
50. Have you ever seen someone die?
51. Have you ever been on a plane?
52. Have you ever kissed a picture?
53. Have you ever slept in until 3?
54. Have you ever loved someone or miss someone right now?
55. Have you ever laid on your back and watched cloud shapes go by?
56. Have you ever made a snow angel?
57. Have you ever played dress up?
58. Have you ever cheated while playing a game?
59. Have you ever been lonely?
60. Have you ever fallen asleep at work/school?
61. Have you ever been to a club?
62. Have you ever felt an earthquake?
63. Have you ever touched a snake?
64. Have you ever ran a red light?
65. Have you ever been suspended from school?
66. Have you ever had detention?
67. Have you ever been in a car accident?
68. Have you ever hated the way you look?
69. Have you ever witnessed a crime?
70. Have you ever pole danced?
71. Have you ever been lost?
72. Have you ever been to the opposite side of the country?
73. Have you ever felt like dying?
74. Have you ever cried yourself to sleep?
75. Have you ever sang karaoke?
76. Have you ever done something you told yourself you wouldn’t?
77. Have you ever laughed until something you were drinking came out your nose?
78. Have you ever slept with someone at least 5 years older or younger?
79. Have you ever kissed in the rain?
80. Have you ever sang in the shower?
81. Have you ever made out in a park?
82. Have you ever dream that you married someone?
83. Have you ever glued your hand to something?
84. Have you ever got your tongue stuck to a flag pole?
85. Have you ever gone to school partially naked?
86. Have you ever been a cheerleader?
87. Have you ever sat on a roof top?
88. Have you ever brushed your teeth?
89. Have you ever been too scared to watch scary movies alone?
90. Have you ever played chicken?
91. Have you ever been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on?
92. Have you ever been told you’re hot by a complete stranger?
93. Have you ever broken a bone?
94. Have you ever been easily amused?
95. Have you ever laughed so hard you cried?
96. Have you ever mooned/flashed someone?
97. Have you ever cheated on a test?
98. Have you ever forgotten someone’s name?
99. Have you ever met someone who didn’t seem real?
100. Give us one thing about you that no one knows.

onlinecounsellingcollege:

“All relationships have one law: never make the one you love feel alone, especially when you are there.”

— Unknown